Category Archives for "Love and Relationships"

March 13, 2016

How To Make Him Miss You: 10 Things To Do In Your Relationship

10 ways to make him miss you

We all know that distance makes the heart grow fonder. When we are together all the time with someone, it can become quite boring and even annoying after a while, depending on the relationship. Being together constantly can take a huge toll on how you feel about each other, which is why experts recommend that giving each other reasons to miss each other may just be the best thing that you can do for your relationship.

When distance is involved, we remember why we love the person so much and, believe it or not, focus on them more than when they are right beside us. It’s like dating all over again when you go back to your own homes at night and think about each other until you get back together. While you may not be able to go to that extreme, nor should you, there are some real good tips on how to make him miss you often enough to keep that spark and interest alive.

1. Create Unexpected Distance

In a relationship, we get into a routine. We leave the house at a certain time in the morning and come back together at a certain time. Rarely do we go off our schedules, so we expect our partner to come back at the time they said they would. While you don’t want to not show up when you are supposed to all the time, doing it once in a while can help remind him of how much he likes being around you and it is a great tip on how to make him miss you.

To do it, don’t call and let him know you are going to be late. Instead, wait about 30 to 45 minutes after you are supposed to be home to send him a message that you are running late at work, or in traffic, or wherever you are. That will be enough time to make him start to wonder where you are and think about you, but not too much time where it will seem rude that you didn’t bother to let him know what was going on.

You can also do this when you are supposed to meet him for a date. When he is sitting around waiting for you, he will feel weird. You two are normally sitting together on a date, and without you there, he will feel the distance between you and start to miss your presence.

Just please don’t do this all the time. If you do, it will become more of a disrespectful thing that makes him angry with you than an unexpected distance that makes him miss you. Rotate this idea with a few of the following ones to maintain the health of your relationship.

2. Insist On Alone Time

Psychologists recommend that you should balance your time together and apart to maintain a sense of well-being as an individual and as a couple; however, most of us don’t find that balance. Between work (that isn’t really alone time), spending time with family and friends, and going to engagements as a couple, it can be hard to find any alone time.

Moreover, many people don’t want to ask for alone time because they feel like they are going to offend their partner. Telling someone that you want to get away from them for a while is not exactly the kindest thing to say, and hurting your man’s feelings is not something that you likely want to do.

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Alone time really is beneficial for you if you use it properly. Use it as a time to go over goals, recharge, and connect with yourself in a way you can’t do when other people are present. It will inspire and uplift you if you appreciate it.

But, having alone time is not only beneficial to your well-being, it is one of the top tips on how to make him miss you, because as we know, distance makes the heart grow fonder! It’s important to discuss alone time in a kind and compassionate way.

For instance, tell him that you need some time to work on your individual goals, and that requires you to be alone and have some quiet time to think. Or, you can do what my friend does. She credits going out of town once a month to a weekend yoga retreat as very important to her spiritual health. Since her husband is not into yoga or spirituality, he has no desire to come along and doesn’t get offended because he knows that she finds it important to rebalance and be a better person and wife in general. But, he is reminded of how important she is in his life when she goes, and he misses her presence every time she has to go away.

3. Get Hobbies

An important part of life is hobbies, but when we get into a relationship we can drop them all and get into the habit of not doing extra-curricular activities that we enjoy because we are too busy with our partner and compromising our time. Today is the day to reclaim your hobbies for your own benefit and for the benefit of your relationship.
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March 2, 2016

Does He Love Me? 19 Signs That He Is Head Over Heels In Love

He loves me, he loves me not

Yes, you have a great time together. And, yes, you think you love him. But, when you find yourself asking, “Does he love me?” too often, you may start to put a damper on all the fun you are having together by worrying and questioning his every move. If you want to know if he loves you, then watch for the following 20 signs and then ease your mind knowing that this guy loves you and there’s no doubt about it.

1. He Talks About How Special You Are

The people we love our special. They are unique. They are completely different from all the other people out there who don’t mean much to us. Therefore, if he’s talking about how special you are in any way, shape, or form, he loves you. He’s formed a bond with you and he sees you differently than other females out there. He may tell you how special you are, his friends, his family, or even co-workers. If he’s verbalizing it, he feels it!

2. He Wants To Be With You As Often As Possible

You used to spend many nights alone in your own homes, but now it seems like he always wants to be around you and your free time is pretty much spent together. This is a huge sign that he loves you!

In intimate relationships full of love, we don’t want to be separated from the other person if we don’t have to be because we enjoy being around them so much. The kind of love we have with them makes us feel amazing, and we would much rather be there than with people who we don’t have that bond with.

3. He’s Starting To See Your Annoying Habits

In the beginning, your hormones are raging and you are blinded by them. You can’t see each other’s imperfections because you are totally lost in each other’s eyes. But, once those hormones settle down, you can clearly see the other person’s annoying habits. If he is questioning you about some of the annoying habits you have, but he still sticks around and treats you right, then he’s in love. He clearly sees your faults and he’s willing to stay anyway!

4. He Listens To You With Enthusiasm

If he’s hanging on to your every word about yourself, then he’s in love. His focus is on you and he wants to learn everything he can about you because you are so interesting! He’s investing time into learning about you, which is something we do with the people we love the most. So, if you catch him remembering what you talked about a few days ago, then you know he’s really listening to you!

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5. He’s Making Sacrifices For You

If you were sick in the beginning, he may have told you to feel better and then went to hang out with his friends until you were back up to speed. But, now, if you are sick, he is willing to stay at home with you even though he could be going out to a concert where his favorite band will be playing. He would rather help you feel better, and he sacrifices that trip because of it. That’s what love makes you do. It makes you want to take care of someone and make sure they are alright before you go out and celebrate or have fun.

6. He’s Farting Around You All Of A Sudden

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February 27, 2016

20 Reasons That Perfect Relationship Looks So Perfect

How to build a perfect relationship?

We all know some couples that seem to have the perfect relationship. Many people are quick to point out that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but the definition of perfect is ‘having all the required or desirable elements, qualities, or characteristics’, which just means being the best that it can be. It is the type of relationship that most people strive for but fail to achieve.

A perfect relationship is fun and satisfying. There are many characteristics of this kind of relationship that unhealthy relationships just don’t have. It’s important to note that if you falter on just one important characteristic of a healthy relationship, then the rest can be affected as well. That’s why relationships take work and commitment to the following 20 aspects.

1. They Focus On Each Other’s Happiness

People who are selfish in a relationship have a lot of problems. A relationship where each person is looking out for themselves is going to be full of arguments, stress, and anger because one person is always going to feel like their needs in the relationship, and as a person, are not being met.

People who are in a seemingly perfect relationship, take into account each other’s feeling and needs, which causes them to think things through before they speak and do things that help maintain their partner’s happiness. They don’t just take into consideration their own needs and values, but their partner’s as well.

2. They Argue Well

In a perfect relationship, there is no punching walls, throwing things, or calling each other names. There is no attacking or blaming. Those are the kinds of behaviors that affect a relationship negatively on every level, and even the best actors wouldn’t be able to pretend like their relationship is great.

Instead, they stay calm, talk things through, avoid saying or doing hurtful things, and come to a resolution in one way or the other. They communicate well, which means they share their opinions and listen to their partners without judgement.

3. They Respect Each Other

Two people in a healthy relationship admire each other as individuals, which allows them to treat each other with respect. When you have respect for someone, it is easier to be kind, considerate, patient, and hold them in high regard. When you don’t respect someone, you will walk all over them, treat them poorly, make them feel bad, and try to tell them who they should be. That makes a big difference to the happiness in a relationship!

4. They Don’t Air Their Dirty Laundry

They argue. There is no doubt about that. But, they don’t confide to their friends about how horrible their partner is, and they don’t bring their arguments out in public for everyone to see. It’s not that they don’t want others to see that they have problems, it’s just that their arguments are personal and none of anybody else’s business. They respect each other enough to keep it between themselves and work it out without painting a negative light around their partner to others.

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5. They Nip Things In The Bud Quickly

When something is wrong, they don’t sit back and hope it will all work out. They are scared to bring up issues that need to be brought up. They communicate issues to their partner so that they know what they feel and what they think needs to be done, and then they work through issues quickly. This helps them avoid arguments about something that happened years ago. And, it helps them avoid holding on to feelings of blame or resentment.

6. They Are Honest

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February 26, 2016

10 Women Reveal How To Attract Women Like Them

Would you like to attract women?

If you are a guy looking for a woman, then I urge you to stay on this article about how to attract women. I have a friend who writes for a dating blog for men, and she tells me that men are not very inclined to listen to a woman’s advice when it comes to attraction in dating and relationships. To me, that’s crazy! Who better to get advice from on how to attract women than women themselves? That’s why I went out and asked 10 women for their number one quality that attracts them to men and then created this article around their answers.

Remember, every single woman has a different preference when it comes to men. Every woman wants a man to treat her in a certain way. But when it comes to attraction, women are pretty much on the same page about what gets their attention and makes them want to learn more about a man. In fact, many of the women who responded had similar answers and I needed them to give me their number two and three reasons why men attract them so that I could include some different ideas.

Curious to learn what attracts women? Let’s talk about the top 10 points.

1. A Guy Who Seems Confident In Himself

“It doesn’t matter what he looks like, what he’s doing, or even how he laughs – if he has confidence, I am attracted to him.” – Tanya

This was the number one answer between many of the woman who answered. A confident attitude is something that women can’t resist.

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Tanya made it clear that there is a difference between confidence and cocky. She can easily tell when a guy is very high on himself and looks down on other people, and that’s a turnoff, but when a guy holds his head up high, doesn’t seem to worry about what other people think, and looks like he’s acting in a way that is true to himself, it’s obvious that he’s proud of himself and thinks a lot of himself. And that is attractive! All women want a man who believes in himself and isn’t afraid to be the man he wants to be.

2. A Guy Who Is Emotionally Sound

“If a guy can keep level headed in a crazy situation, I find that seriously attractive.” – Jeannie

Even though this point isn’t talked about a lot, a few of the other women also agreed on this point as very important when it comes to how to attract women. A man who doesn’t go around punching walls when things get stressful, or doesn’t lose it when they don’t get their way, is much more attractive than a man who can’t keep a level head.

It’s funny because I hear a lot of guys talk about how women are not capable of giving advice because they are too emotional. Yet I see a lot of guys who are much more emotional than women are. They throw tantrums, get angry quickly, and are quick to act in an immature and irrational way when they are upset.

In any case, a guy who can stay emotionally cool when the shit hits the fan is definitely an attractive man to most women. It shows a sign of inner strength and an ability to work through things, and it indicates that he will be much more likely to handle stressful situations in a relationship in a healthy manner.

3. A Guy Who Displays A Little Bit Of Dominance

“When a man gives me a sexy, dominant look, I can’t resist!” – Amanda
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February 18, 2016

Rules And Tips On How To Make Out With A Girl For The First Time

What to do during your first make out

As soon as you like a girl, the thought of making out pops into your head. Unfortunately, making out with a girl is an awkward thing to do for the first time. You’re not sure if she wants to make out. You’re not sure if she’s going to like making out with you. And all these questions and fears can hold you back from trying to make out with her. But, it is very important to understand how to make out with a girl for the first time because if you miss your chance or blow it, you may not get another one.

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This article is going to assume that you already have the first kiss under your belt. Just a simple little kiss the showed a girl how much you like her without being aggressive. If you haven’t done that, then you definitely need to get on it if there is a girl who you like. Don’t wait too long for the first kiss or you might enter into friend territory and never get your chance to even try.

The same goes for making out. Making out is about kissing passionately. It’s also about touching and being close to each other. If you wait too long to make out, it’s going to become harder and harder to go for it. It’s going to feel extremely awkward to start a make-out session if you wait too long. And, you can easily send the message that you’re not interested in that way if you wait too long, which may cause her to distance herself from you because she’s not sure whether or not you’re really into it. After all, a guy who is really into her would want to make out with her!

The importance of making out is simply that it strengthens your connection, progresses you to the next level of your relationship, and makes you more of a couple then just simply casually dating.

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This is going to disappoint some guys looking for a specific answer, but there is no specific time when making out is appropriate. Every relationship and every person requires it at a different time, and you need to watch for the signs in both yourself, and in her, in order to time it out just right.

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If you haven’t had your first kiss yet, or if it was just a little peck and not much more, then you may end up making out during your first real kiss – the type of kiss where your lips linger for a few seconds and your heart skips a beat. However, for most girls, it will probably be too aggressive to start making out directly after this kiss, and it’s better to get your first romantic kiss in and leave it at that before your first make-out session to create a nice first kiss memory.

4 Rules For Making Out For The First Time

If you want some rules to remember for how to make out with a girl for the first time, these are them. Remember them, use them, and your make-out session will go as well as it can.

1. You Must Have Had Physical Contact Before

You have to feel a physical connection with her. That means that you must have either kissed, hugged, held hands, or touched in some other way. The initial nice and non-aggressive connection is a gateway to a make-out session. It shows that she doesn’t mind being physically close to you and that she may be ready for a make-out session with you. If you just go for it and start making out without any previous physical contact, you have no idea whether or not she really wants a physical connection with you and it could end in major disappointment for you.

2. You Must Have An Intense Desire To Make Out

There has to be a moment. The movies don’t have it wrong on this one. There is a moment where you look into each other’s eyes or end up face to face, and you instinctively know that you’re going to kiss her. You feel something pulling you towards her – a type of energy that you don’t feel when you are just talking to her or standing beside her or looking at her. It’s intense. It’s impossible to ignore. It’s your cue that the moment to make out has arisen.

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For the most part, if you are feeling an intense desire to make out, then so is she. That type of energy is a shared energy. Essentially it’s the chemistry between you being felt. Unless you are totally misreading the feeling, and she is actually focused on something else, this is going to be the moment that she will reciprocate making out.

3. It Should Be Sensual, Not Weird

The first make-out session should be pleasing. It shouldn’t be about trying to go all the way or trying the new move that you read or heard about. Basically, you want to make it as sensual as possible.

Think of it like this: you want to gratify the senses, especially the feeling of your bodies, lips, and hands touching. You want to feel each other and experience a type of oneness that you haven’t felt before. Kissing and touching are really all you need to make the first make-out session stand out in her mind. Touching each other’s hands, face, and bodies is the goal.

You can talk a little, but don’t get too deep with the conversation. Talking to a woman while you make out helps break up the kissing. It gives her a chance to hear your sensual voice, and if you say the right things, it could intensify the pleasure she is feeling. The bottom line is that it’s sexy for her to hear a low, deep voice in the middle of making out. Stop, look into her eyes, smile, ask her if she likes it, and then continue making out.

Also, don’t get too weird with the kissing. Close-mouthed and passionate kissing is fine for the first time. If you open your mouth and use your tongue, don’t get too crazy with it. If you do, then you might freak her out and ruin your chances of another make-out session. In addition, kissing her face and neck is fine if you are feeling it. It is a nice break from kissing on the lips and, when you get back to her lips, it will feel great.

Lastly, keep your hands busy, but don’t go under the clothes unless she initiates it. She may not want you to touch her directly yet, and if you do, then you might ruin the make-out session. It’s better to avoid touching her most intimate areas and stick with her hair, face, neck, back, arms, hands, and legs. And, if you feel her hand going under your shirt, don’t waste any time going under hers! It a sign that she wants you to do more than what you are doing!

4. End It Nicely

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February 17, 2016

16 Getting To Know You Questions You Should Always Ask

What questions should you ask?

A lot of people don’t want to ask too many questions when they are just getting to know someone. But, if you don’t ask the right questions, then you could find yourself months or even years from now regretting getting into a relationship that makes you completely unhappy. It’s better to get some important answers upfront so that you can move forward with confidence that things may just work out really well if you decide to get into a relationship.

There are some simple questions that will help you get the answers that you want to know. And, if you don’t get the exact answers that you want to know, you will get a good or bad feeling around the answers. If you get a good feeling, then things will likely be good. But if you get a bad feeling, this will be something that you need to delve into further before you make any kind of commitment to the relationship. Following are some of the questions and why they’re so important to ask.

1. Do You Have A Big Family?

Asking this question should get them talking a little bit about their family. Getting insight into their family can give you a lot of insight into how they are going to be in the relationship. If they like their family, then they probably have strong bonds and know how to maintain a healthy relationship. If they don’t get along with anyone in their family, then the issue may be on their end or on their family’s end, but you need to find out before you get into a relationship. If they have a big family and are an instigator in their family and cause all kinds of problems, then the chances are high that they will do the same in your relationship.

2. Are Most Of Your Friends Close By?

The reason for this question is to get insight into how many friends they have. If they don’t have a lot of friends, there may be a big reason that you will want to dig further into. It may just be because they prefer being alone and don’t have a lot of time for friends, or it may be because they are displaying some pretty unattractive traits that push people away from them. Either way, it’s important to understand how they interact with people who they are not obligated to interact with, so you can get an idea of their social skills and how they will interact with you and your friends and family.

3. What Are You Looking For In A Relationship?

You may think this is a bit too forward, but the truth is you need to know if they are looking for the same thing you are. I have many friends who thought they were in a relationship that could progress towards marriage, but it turned out the other person was as serious as they were.

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In this day and age, we have lots of options open to us, and not everyone wants to get married anymore. If you do, this will be a big problem if you meet someone doesn’t. That’s why it’s important to get a feel for the general direction your relationship could go if you are compatible.

4. What Are Your Pet Peeves?

You don’t want to move forward in a relationship with someone who finds your whistling or carefree attitude annoying. Before someone gets to know too much about you, you should find out what their pet peeves are. They will be more than willing to tell you the truth, whereas waiting too long could cause them to clam up because they know that some of their pet peeves can be found in you.

The biggest problem is that people are willing to look past their pet peeves in the beginning of a relationship, but later on – when all the excitement is gone, a lot of hurt feelings and arguments will be had over the things they find especially annoying about you (or that you find annoying about them).

5. What Do You Normally Do On The Weekend?

You do not want to get matched with someone who enjoys spending their days off in a completely different way. Why? If you do, you’ll find yourself alone a lot.

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For example, if you enjoy staying in the house and they enjoy being outdoors, then one of you is going to be very unhappy if you spend time together. Maybe not the beginning of the relationship when you are more willing to compromise, but when you start wanting to focus on your natural habits and needs again, it’s going to become a problem. Find out if you are a match when it comes to leisure time before you make any kind of commitment.

6. Why Did You End Your Last Relationship?

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February 17, 2016

15 Things To Talk About With Your Girlfriend To Bring You Closer

Conversation topic with your girlfiend

Have you ever heard the saying, ‘We fall in love by chance, we stay in love by choice’? Always remember that saying in your relationship with your girlfriend because it will make a huge difference to your relationship’s happiness. The truth is that you always have a choice to become closer or grow apart.

One of the best ways to become closer is to find some intimate things to talk about with your girlfriend that have some meaning to her and you and your relationship. Not sure where to start? That’s okay because this article will give you 15 topics to choose from that will help you find many more topics on your own.

1. Talk About Something That You Have In Common

If you were drawn together, then you have some things in common. They are likely what made you feel connected in the beginning, and they will keep making you feel connected no matter how long you’ve been together.

What’s interesting is that researchers found that if you have something in common with someone else, you tend to think of them as being like you in a bunch of other ways, not just in the way you know you are similar. That means that when you talk about how you are similar, your differences will be put aside and you will feel like you are on the same page.

Moreover, the part of the brain (lower medial prefrontal cortex) that becomes active when we connect with someone who we share similarities with, causes to us view those people like ourselves and avoid building up a judgment around them.

In other words, that one similarity can make you feel connected on many different levels. Therefore, talking about what you have in common during a conversation is something that will help you feel closer instantly.

You can talk about common beliefs, habits, likes, or dislikes. Anything that brings you two on the same page will help you feel more connected and unified.

2. Tell Her What You Like About Her

Everyone likes hearing positive things about themselves. If you want to engage in a conversation where she feels good, then talk about what you like about her.

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Talk about what you liked when you first met her and talk about what you like about her now. You will make her feel good about herself, and those feelings will transfer to how she feels about you. In short, she will feel as if you are on her side and a supporter of her, and that will help her feel closer to you.

3. Talk About Whether Or Not You Believe In God

If you haven’t talked about this yet, it’s a great topic of conversation to connect on a deeper level. This is not something you talk about with a stranger on the street or someone you barely know because it is an intimate topic.

In some cases, you may already know the basics. For instance, if you met in church then you are going know the basics of what she believes. But for most people this will be a topic that hasn’t been touched yet and will give you insight into what she believes in and how she governs herself according to what she believes.

You may not be on the same page as her during the conversation, but it will definitely bring you closer as you will get an up close view into her intimate thoughts, and she will get an up close view into yours. Yes, you have to share your thoughts too!

Pay attention to her during the conversation for things that you can talk about later. For instance, you can talk about how she grew up or what her parents believed or how her friends influenced her or how her religion influenced her. There are so many different intimate conversations you can have after you determine where you both stand on the idea of God or religion in general.

4. Ask Her What She Feels Grateful For

When you focus on gratitude, you feel better. You feel happier and more alive and ready to take on the world. If you talk to her about what she feels grateful for, then you are helping her feel better, happier, alive, and ready to take on the world! It’s just a simple way to help her feel better about herself, you, and everything that’s going on around her.

Ask a specific question, such as what she feels most grateful for in her life or what she feels most grateful for about her family. Or, if it is just a random conversation, then pick any topic around gratitude. And if she is feeling down about something, then asking her to focus on what she is grateful for in that area will help her to start feeling better, and when she feels better, she will associate you with that increased mood.

5. Talk About An Embarrassing Moment

Again, this is not something that you would talk about with a stranger or somebody you don’t feel comfortable with. It’s reserved for people that you have an intimate connection with who won’t judge you.

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It may feel awkward to do it first, but it is a way to show vulnerability, which is huge for building a closer connection, and it will give her more insight into you. Let’s face it, we all have embarrassing moments. And by talking about it with each other, you will have a little secret that other people will never have with you or your girlfriend.

6. Talk About Her Favorite Vacation Destination

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February 16, 2016

8 Ingredient Formula For How To Get A Girl To Like You

Make her fall for you

This is not an article about playing games. Lots of guys will tell you to play games with a girl to get her to like you, but the truth is that games affect HOW she likes you. She may be unsure of what you are thinking. She may feel inadequate as you use some games that make her think that she is not good enough. And, she may not fully like you the way you should want a girl to like you – she may just be pulled in by the games.

If you want to know how to get a girl to like you for you, and then possibly get into a happy relationship with her where you both feel connected and amazing, then this article is for you. This is the stuff that you need to know about getting a girl to like you.

Keep in mind, not every girl is going to like you, but that has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. It has to do with what they have been taught, what they believe, what they are focused on, and many other things. So, while this is an 8 ingredient formula for getting a girl to like you, it’s not going to work on every girl.

1. Be Confident

You have probably heard this before because confidence is the sexiest trait a guy can have, hands down. If you are confident, then you give a girl confidence that you are a guy worth liking! Confidence doesn’t just draw a girl in, though, it also gives you the ability to do what you need to do to win over a girl.

Girls want to be pursued by guys, and you need to have the confidence to stay in the game and make some bold moves that let her know you like her. If you are too shy to talk to her, show her you are interested, ask her out, or approach her when you need to, then she is not going to be able to tell if you really like her or not, which will not work out in your favor. Either she will think you are not interested because your lack of confidence will make you look like disinterested, or she will not be able to tell whether you are interested or not and, to avoid being rejected, she will distance herself from you.

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Have faith in yourself that you can approach and a get a girl to like you. And have faith that if she doesn’t, for whatever reason, you will be just fine! When you have that type of confidence, you can use all the other tips on how to get a girl to like you much more easily.

2. Image Is Important

Girls are not as hung up on what you look like as you think, but that doesn’t mean that it doesn’t matter to them. They will look past the physical appearance, such as how tall you are, what your face looks like, and whether you are big or thin. But if you are dirty, smelly, and wearing your grandfather’s clothes, then a girl may not be into you no matter how awesome you are.

In fact, how you dress is very important. Research has shown that girls instinctively look at how guys are dressed to determine if he will be a good provider for their family in the future. Better dressed guys send a message that they are more stable, goal-orientated, and driven than their sweat suit or ripped clothes counterparts. Even if girls are not thinking about having a family, they will still have this instinctual judgment inside of them.

If you like a girl, then you have to focus on your image. Dress better, get a cool haircut, and smell good. Even if you don’t have your image on point yet, a makeover can change the way a girl feels about you in an instant. I have seen girls not even notice a guy, and then once he changes his style around they completely become infatuated with him. Keep that in mind as you consider whether or not to change the way you look.

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February 14, 2016

10 Things To Do When You Feel Like Giving Up On Love

Never give up on love

What should you do when you feel like giving up on love? Should you throw your hands up in the air and admit that love just isn’t for you? You could. But if you do, you would be doing yourself a very big disservice. Love benefits your life in so many different ways that giving up on it will have a major impact on your happiness and health. Research has shown that feeling loved can impact how fit you are, how long you live, how happy you feel, how strong you are, and much more. In short, love impacts your life in a big way!

If you feel like giving up on love, you have probably been rejected and feel a lot of pain in your heart right now. Here’s what you need to do so that you don’t give up on love.

1. Redefine What Love Means To You

Many people can’t find romantic love and that is when they say that they are giving up on love altogether. While romantic love can sometimes feel a little different than other love, it’s important to recognize that love is still love. You have to keep your heart open to loving your friends, your family, and people in general. The love of a really good friend can be just as beneficial as the love of a romantic partner.

When you tell yourself that you are giving up on finding romantic love, you tend to close yourself off, even to people who want to love you in a way that will benefit you. Your ‘no love’ sign gets hung out and you do what you can to keep yourself closed off from love so that you won’t get hurt or feel the pain again of not finding the type of love you want.

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Romantic relationships and other intimate relationships are different mainly because one has physical intimacy while the other doesn’t. There are people who define themselves as asexual, which simply means that they are not looking for a sexual relationship. Does that mean they do not experience love? Of course not! Love is not about being in a romantic or sexual relationship. It is about loving someone, caring about them, having them care about you, and feeling a connection with them. So don’t define love solely as romantic love. Keep your definition of love wide open so that giving up on love is not something that you consider.

2. Recognize Your Value

A lot of people give up on love because they don’t feel valuable enough. They don’t feel like they deserve love or that they are worthy of having the kind of love that they want in their life. That’s complete crap. Everyone is worthy of love. Everyone is valuable enough to experience the kind of love that they want.

When you start to tell yourself that you are not valuable, you start to act as if you are not valuable. For instance, if someone comes up to you and gives you a compliment, and you don’t think you’re valuable enough to receive the compliment, then you are going to shut them down before they even get started. You will not accept the compliment into your life. And the same goes for love.

If you do not feel like you are valuable enough to be loved, then you are not going to allow love into your life – even if it is knocking on your front door. This is why you always have to remind yourself of how worthy you are of love. Every day, list out the reasons why you are worthy of finding and receiving love to keep it clear in your mind, and never stop believing that truth no matter what happens in your life.

3. Get Yourself Into A Higher Emotional State

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February 6, 2016

14 Signs It’s Infatuation Vs Love

Is it affection or true love?

Are you not sure if you are really in love with that person or just infatuated? It can be confusing! You think you might love them, but you don’t really feel like this is what love should feel like, or you are worried that you are just making it all up in your head. The difference between infatuation vs love is that infatuation is a short-lived passion for someone whereas love is a deep affection for someone that lasts the test of time. The problem is that infatuation is a powerful feeling that can make you think you are in love. Still not sure if it is infatuation or love? Following are 14 signs that it’s definitely infatuation.

Sign 1: You’ve Only Know Each Other For A Short Time

I’ve known people who have said they were in love after a few days. But, a few months later, they realized that they hated everything about the person, which showed that when they claimed it was love, they hadn’t taken enough time to really get to know the person enough to really love them.

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If you’ve only known the person for a short time, then it is infatuation vs love. Love takes a while to develop. It takes intimacy, which requires a connection or attachment to someone. Love is about being familiar with someone, where a bond has been developed. You may feel attached to them, but if you have not taken the time to develop an intimate connection, then that attachment is coming from being infatuated, not real love.

Sign 2: You Are Focused On What You Want Out Of Them And The Relationship

Some people get into a relationship and can see themselves dating, getting married, having kids, and relocating to a tropical island for their retirement. They picture all of these things in detail, including short-term events, such as spending time together and falling more and more in love. But, they are focused on their future with this person from their point of view, not the other person’s point of view. If you see your relationship solely from your point of view, then it is infatuation, not love.

Love is about knowing what the other person wants in life and working on compromising. It’s not about satisfying your needs and expectations solely.

Sign 3: They Seem High Above You

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